Before now, I was not able to talk about it too much with many people. The loss of him turned my world upside down in so many ways and it was a hard way back, mentally and physically. After all of the turmoil, tears and heartbreak, I was graced with my baby puppy and got into blogging finally. I can now smile, laugh and remember all of the many fun and good times. I have thousands of pictures of Alex, a scrapbook I was able to finally complete, thanks to a very wonderful and good friend who started it for me and so many special memories of my precious boy. I know that I will see him again one day and the circle will be complete. I picture him now in Heaven with my Mother, Grandparents, my late husband, my kitty Phoenix, dear kitty Bingo, my horse Trigger, dear Hobo, my other Cocker Spaniel and so many more. Until then, I know they all look down on us and smile and wag their tails or sometimes shake their heads at me.
Alex....I will always love you....forever. That goes for everyone else too that has been in my life and moved on to Heaven and the Rainbow Bridge....I will see all of you one day. Until then, know that I love all of you so very much.
In Memory of Alex - August 8, 1993 - July 22, 2006
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| Angel(s) watching over Alex. |
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| Bingo watching Alex. |
Bingo slept next to Alex the last few days and nights of his life. He watched over him constantly and did not leave his side. Sadly, Bingo got really sick the next year with diabetes amd liver disease and left too for the Rainbow Bridge. He is with his best buddy, Alex.
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Awww, what beautiful memories you have got. Mummy knows exactly how you must have felt as she went through a really rough time a few years ago too. Sending lots of fluffy hugs and love from us all :)xxxx
Stress and loss put more strains on our body than I think we understand. I know many people who have lost a beloved pet, and never got another, because they didn't want to feel that pain again. What they may not realize is that dogs help us live for today, and comfort us through our losses.
Alex was a dear, sweet soul, and it seems as though he played a big role in bringing Holly into your life. What a blessing.
Dear Debbie...I'm so truly sorry for all the loss you have suffered.
I cannot even begin to imagine the strength it took to come through all of this. Your heart was truly broken. God bless you for you positive spirit and loving nature to all you know. Alex had a beautiful wave in his furs too. It appears he was the perfect Cocker in looks and breed.
You and Holly were meant to be together.
Hugs to you both,
Madi and Mom
Your love for Alex was so huge it literally broke your heart to lose him. We are so happy that you have Holly there with you now to help heal the sorrow. Bingo was a true pal to Alex, and he needed to go be with him after Alex left. Tough to lose so many so quickly, but it is easy to see how well-loved they all were.
Beautiful tribute to beautiful Alex.
Woos ~ Phantom, Thunder, and Ciara
Beth here -- it is so hard to say goodbye....but atleast we have those beautiful memories!
This is truly a very beautiful post and tribute to sweet Alex. Remember, it was Alex that brought our Moms together and created a wonderful, lasting friendship.
Thanks for sharing such precious memories with all of us. Hugs.
Difficult times, but our pets have a way of helping us through huh?? Such good memories too!!
wags
Jazzi and Addy
Gosh that is such a great tribute to Alex. We are so glad that you told us about him. He sounds like a really nice dog. It is so darn hard when our fur friends or anyone leaves us. Take care and have a great Tuesday.
What beautiful memories of Alex and Bingo.....how grand is it that they are together again at the Rainbow Bridge?
Bless those nurses for convincing you to get the most gorgeous Holly.
Love to y'all.
My mommy wanted me to write that she knows all too well how you are feeling. A doggie she grew up with passed away just before she got married. She said she understands the pain, the stress, and everything bad that goes along with losing a furbaby. She also said that she is happy that all of her previous furbabies are together with past family members.
I am so glad you are able to share Alex's life with us -- he was so very lucky to have you in it. :)
Lotsa woofs & hugs,
~Bailey (Yep, I'm a girl!)
You have our mom in tears. What a beautiful tribute to a very handsome Alex and thank doG for Holly!
Love ya lots,
Maggie and Mitch
"Those who are remembered, never die."
Your heartache echoes across the world. What a beautiful, moving tribute to a special friend.
Sending lotsaluv
MAXMOM IN SOUTH AFRICA
Very beautiful memories and pictures and you can now look back and remember with love. Yes you will meet again. I am glad you have got Holly as she is a treasure too and will without doubt have been a part of the healing.. Hugs GJ xx
::wipes tears from eyes:: what a touching post. Thank you for sharing photos and stories of Alex with us. You can tell how special he was.
I am sure he is looking after you from Heaven.
Beautiful tribute.
Thanks for sharing him and all the good memories.
Take care
Kisses and hugs
Lorenza
A lovely tribute!
You had so many tragedies so close together - it's no wonder you ended up ill and it sounds like losing Alex was the last draw. Cockers hold a special place in my heart too and I'm still trying to come to terms with losing my Abby in January so I truly understand what you're saying about Alex. He was such a beautiful boy and I'm convinced we will all be reunited someday in Heaven. Take care
Such a sweet rememberance of dear Alex... sending big hugs your way.
Oh what a horrible time in your life. Thanks for sharing Alex with us.
Nubbin wiggles & hugs,
Oskar & Pam
I cannot imagine the magnitude of grief that you felt with so many losses all in a row. I can see the love in sweet Alex's eyes in the photos. His love was such a gift to you, and now Holly has carried it on.
Thanks for sharing your memories.
What a handsome dog. Thank you for sharing pictures of him. We put together a scrapbook of our first Airedale, Leo. It's wonderful to remember that crazy dog!
Wyatt's Mom
I have read a lot of memorials but this one really touched me. You have lost so many loves in your life. There is a saying I gave to a friend that recently lost her pet "Remember me and smile, for it's better to forget then remember me and cry". Isn't it wonderful a simple thing like reaching out and blogging can help. Holly you are a special dog and look after your Mom well.
Your Alex was so blessed! We know you will see him again someday! We are glad you can find happiness when remembering him.
You can just see it in his eyes, Alex was special. And what a beautiful relationship with his kitty brother too.
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I'm so sorry that you have passed difficult moments. I'm sure that Alex was a fantastic buddy and real friend. Your memories of him are so beautiful.
Have a nice weekend, my friends.
Woof, woof,
Chicco
Nurses know what they're talking about most of the time :)
Debbie, I am so sorry for all you have gone through. So much pain and heartbreak. It sometimes is so hard to understand why and know that down the road things do start to heal. I, as others have said above, am so glad Holly came into your life. We, your blogger pals and our furbabies, are all out here cheering you on and enjoying your writings and photos. I truly believe Alex is watching you from beyond the Rainbow Bridge, along with your family members who are in Heaven, and they all are wanting you to be happy and healthy. Big Husky hugs to you and Holly.
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